Category Lavender Counselling

Is Counselling or Psychotherapy right for me?

Counselling or Psychotherapy right for me

If you’ve considered contacting a counsellor or psychotherapist and then stopped before you booked in, this post is for you. Maybe you got busy and just forgot when the urgency of the moment settled. There can be a whole host of questions or thoughts that can come up for people when they consider booking a counselling appointment.

How to choose a trauma therapist?

Choosing a Trauma Specialist

If you've had one significant traumatic event, or several traumatic events occur in your life, finding a skilled trauma therapist is essential. This past week I have had the privilege of working with first-responder/military couples, in group format, where one partner has a PTSD diagnosis.

Self Care Re-Defined

Self Care Re-Defined

The message that we ‘should’ all engage in self care is everywhere. This can leave self care feeling like one more thing to put on our to do lists. At every turn – be it magazine covers or blog posts - we’re promised happiness and contentment if we simply follow "these 4 simple steps".

What Makes Sex Good

What Makes Sex Good

As a psychotherapist who specializes in sexuality, I have spent much time contemplating what is happening-- emotionally, physically, spiritually, relationally-- when our sex lives are thriving. Through my research, I have also talked to both men and women who have embraced their sexuality as an essential aspect of who they are.

The Monkey Puppy Mind

Thanks for joining us again to learn more about meditation. Last post, we talked about the most common stumbling block of developing a mediation practice, which is how uncomfortable and unbearable it can feel when your mind is all over. It is at this moment that you’re actually doing it, just as it was intended.